Been There Got Out High-Conflict Divorce, Custody, and Co-Parenting Strategists
Been There Got Out

Strategic Oversight & Pro Se

A hamster running in its wheel, illustrating the exhausting, going-nowhere feeling of being stalked through the courts.
For an abuser, the courtroom becomes another weapon. How endless filings turn into a form of stalking, and how to fight back when the system keeps you tied to your ex....
A person slumped head-in-hands over a laptop, illustrating the frustration of relying on ineffective solutions.
Couples counseling can rescue a healthy marriage and sabotage your chances with an abuser. Why the usual fixes backfire in a high-conflict relationship, and what actually helps....
A glowing human head with an illuminated brain over a DNA strand, illustrating understanding the nature and severity of a personality disorder.
Something's wrong, and you can't ignore it any longer. The clear-eyed first step in a high-conflict situation: understanding what you're actually dealing with before you plan your way out....

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Parental Alienation book
Parental Alienation Book

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Been There Got Out: When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You

If your children are being used as weapons — you’re not imagining it. This is your roadmap.