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Stalking Through the Courts: Post-Separation Abuse in the Legal System

The idea that “you will have your day in court!” and get justice is a myth. At least that’s how I see it. Now in my SEVENTH YEAR of court after getting out of a toxic marriage, I’ve had so many appearances that I’ve lost count. Most of these have...

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Avoiding Ineffective Solutions

If your marriage or serious relationship has become strained, you and your partner may consider couples counseling. There’s no doubt that a good therapist can help otherwise healthy couples work through issues that are giving them trouble. But if your partner is an abuser, it’s a completely different story, and...

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Understanding the Nature & Severity of Your Predicament

There’s something wrong in your relationship, and it’s become enough of a problem that you can’t ignore it any longer. You’ve decided to try to figure out what the issue is. That’s a good first step, but now you’ve got some work to do. First and foremost, if you are...

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Been There Got Out: When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You

If your children are being used as weapons — you’re not imagining it. This is your roadmap.

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