What would you do
to have some
peace in your life?
Being in a relationship with a toxic partner
can be devastating to you and your children.
If you've had enough suffering, you need to wake up... and take action.
Take a deep breath
You are not alone
We've been there, we understand, and we can help with our 3-Step Program
Understand Your Situation
If you feel like nothing you do is ever good enough, if you're constantly blamed for things that aren't your fault, and if there's endless conflict in your once-wonderful relationship and you don't know why, the problem might be that your partner is a narcissist or other toxic personality.
This problem is widely misunderstood, and it's way more common than you might think. It's also very serious - in some cases even life-threatening.
If you or someone you care about might be in a toxic relationship, take our FREE quiz.
In about 5 minutes, you'll understand that you're not crazy, and you're not alone.
We will never share your private information or spam you. Ever.
Know the Risks
Of Toxic Relationships
Being in, and getting out of, a relationship with a toxic partner can be incredibly destructive. It can take years longer and cost far more than a "normal" situation. It's critical to understand the risks as early in the process as you can.
The Risks of Toxic Relationships
- Review the Quiz
- Learn more about the risks of toxic relationships
- Learn about the hurdles you'll have to overcome
- Get a special invitation to our online course
- Ask questions about your own situation
If you are in a toxic relationship with a high-conflict partner, and you want to save yourself and your family from permanent harm, you need to wake up... and get out.
Advice and comfort from the trenches.
- Male and female perspectives.
- Domestic abuse survivors who found healthy love together, helping others.
We can help you
Get Over the Hurdles
For many, coming to understand that the situation has become intolerable is the biggest hurdle.
Understanding the nature and severity of your predicament
Despite the proliferation of high-conflict mental health problems (e.g., narcissism) in our society, most people don't truly understand these issues.
Avoiding ineffective solutions
Narcissists cannot be "cured," and investing yourself in counseling or couples therapy delays a true solution and causes more pain.
Accepting that your partner is actually your adversary
It can be so hard to realize that the partner you love is really your (extremely cunning and dangerous) enemy... but you have to do it.
Building your support network
You will need support, but friends & family - and even many therapists - will not understand why your situation is fundamentally different.
Planning and committing to act
Developing your plan to get out without escalating the conflict in your home is a crucial challenge.
Overcoming their devious tricks to keep you
Your toxic partner may have a wide range of tactics they use to keep you in their abusive clutches. You have to work to overcome them.
Navigating a legal system that's not designed to help you
Shockingly, over-burdened courts and unaware attorneys are not likely to understand your high-conflict divorce.
Building your new life
You may have completely lost your center - narcissists skillfully do that to their victims. But you can get it back... and soar!
Are you ready to talk with someone who will understand?
High-Conflict Divorce Survivor
I was in a relationship with a high-conflict partner for fourteen years. My divorce took three years and cost more than $300,000, and at least half of that time and money was wasted. I was so naive. I just did not understand what I was up against. However, once I learned how to manage my high-conflict divorce, I was able to overcome great odds and achieve a favorable legal outcome that protects my role as a loving fatherof my two sons.
High-Conflict Divorce Survivor
I was married for nearly eighteen years my best friend, or so I thought, and never imagined I would get a divorce. My parents have been married for over fifty years! After discovering my husband’s web of lies and deceit, I clung to the belief that it was necessary tokeep the family together at all costs.Big mistake. When the split became inevitable, what I thought would be finished peacefully within a couple of months took a full year of major battle. After truly grasping the nature of what I was dealing with, I was able to get support, avoid trial and help my kids through a very difficult time. Today, after what could have been devastating circumstances, my children and I are thriving!
"I can't thank you and Chris enough... I don't know where I'd be if I didn't have you guys."
"If you had asked me in December if I would be up to this task, I would have said, 'I don't know.' After what I've been through and survived the last six months, I know I am!"
"Work is getting much easier to focus on again... also I think the realization that my life will be much better and far less chaotic with her has been calming, almost sobering."