Been There Got Out High-Conflict Divorce, Custody, and Co-Parenting Strategists
Been There Got Out

life after…

A traffic signal glowing red, amber and green, illustrating situational awareness and the color-code mindset.
Security expert Greg Glassock teaches police a simple color code for staying safe. How the same white-yellow-orange-red system helps you spot danger early and live without dread....
Two cockatiels affectionately touching beaks, illustrating the tender follow-up to a memorable first kiss.
Newly single at 48, Chris was sure he'd be alone by fifty. The same story from the other side: what a real first kiss feels like once you've found someone safe. Part two....
Two prairie dogs touching mouths as if kissing, a playful image for a first kiss that knocked my socks off.
Decades of good memories, replaced in a moment she never saw coming. A mid-life romance story, and a reminder that the butterflies are still possible after everything you've survived....
A birthday cake topped with lit HAPPY candles and strawberries, illustrating an unexpectedly joyful birthday during a hard season.
She once doubted she would live past forty. How a quiet pandemic birthday turned into the best one yet, and what it revealed about the peace waiting on the other side of leaving....
A blobfish, used humorously to illustrate what happens to aging narcissists who lose their supply.
Age strips a narcissist of the looks, charm, and attention they always relied on. What tends to become of them once you're long gone: isolation, bitterness, and blame....
A black cat raising a paw playfully, a lighthearted image for a daily thought.
A short dose of perspective for a hard day: one thought worth holding onto while you rebuild your life after a toxic relationship....

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Parental Alienation book
Parental Alienation Book

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Been There Got Out: When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You

If your children are being used as weapons — you’re not imagining it. This is your roadmap.