# Been There Got Out: High\-Conflict Divorce, Custody, and Co\-Parenting Strategists > Divorcing a narcissist can be a nightmare\. We're Chris and Lisa, and we've been there\. Practical strategy for divorce, custody, and parental alienation\. Generated by Yoast SEO v28.2, this is an llms.txt file, meant for consumption by LLMs. ## Pages - [AnswerHub](https://beentheregotout.com/answers/) - [About Been There Got Out](https://beentheregotout.com/about/) - [Your Curated Playlist](https://beentheregotout.com/my-playlist/) - [Home](https://beentheregotout.com/) - [Privacy Policy](https://beentheregotout.com/privacy-policy/) ## Posts - [My Ex Is Turning My Kids Against Me: How to Recognize What's Happening and What You Can Do About It](https://beentheregotout.com/parental-alienation-guide/): If you're reading this terrified that your child is slipping away, you're not imagining it, and you're not alone\. A clear guide to recognizing parental alienation and fighting back\. - [Dealing With a Manipulative Person: What 45 Years of Practice Taught Dr\. George Simon](https://beentheregotout.com/how-to-deal-with-manipulative-people/): You cannot reason someone into caring\. After 45 years working with manipulative people, Dr\. George Simon explains why dealing with one is really about how you show up\. - [What Happens in a Custody Evaluation — A Forensic Psychologist Explains](https://beentheregotout.com/custody-evaluation/): A custody evaluation can feel like being put under a microscope\. A forensic psychologist walks through what evaluators actually look at and what they are trying to learn\. - [Representing Yourself? What a 40\-Year Litigator Wants Every Pro Se Litigant to Know](https://beentheregotout.com/pro-se-litigant/): Nobody hands you the courtroom rules when you represent yourself\. A litigator with forty years in the room explains how to look and sound like you belong there\. - [The Narcissistic Discard: Why It Happens and How You Recover](https://beentheregotout.com/narcissistic-discard/): Being discarded is not proof you were disposable\. A psychotherapist explains what actually happened, why it landed when it did, and how people come back from it\. ## Categories - [Book Resources](https://beentheregotout.com/category/book-resources/) - [Narcissism \& Abuse](https://beentheregotout.com/category/dealing-with-narcissists/) - [Divorce \& Custody](https://beentheregotout.com/category/divorce-custody/) - [Life After](https://beentheregotout.com/category/life-after/) - [Confidence \& Strength](https://beentheregotout.com/category/confidence-strength/) ## Tags - [narcissism](https://beentheregotout.com/tag/narcissism/) - [educating yourself](https://beentheregotout.com/tag/educating-yourself/) - [emotional abuse](https://beentheregotout.com/tag/emotional-abuse/) - [legal issues](https://beentheregotout.com/tag/legal-issues/) - [custody](https://beentheregotout.com/tag/custody/) ## Optional - [Sitemap index](https://beentheregotout.com/sitemap_index.xml)