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Our first course, “Wake Up and Smell the Narcissist”
  • At least six training and support sessions
  • All course materials
  • Access to our private Facebook support group
  • Lifetime access to all the modules
  • Access to “Detox Talks,” our regular online group support calls
That’s a $2,997 value… but you get our one-time-only “Founder’s Scholarship” of $1,000 because you’re helping create the course.
So your price is only $1,997less than a few hours with an attorney!


Because you’re part of this select first group of BTGO course members, you’ll also get:
  • Our second course: Navigating a Legal System That’s Not Designed to Help You, a $2,997 value
  • Our third course: Healing Yourself and Your Children and Finding Healthy Happiness, a $2,997 value
  • Access to all future “Deep Dive” courses as we develop them, a $997 value each
  • A free copy of our book when we publish it, a $25 value
  • Lifetime access to everything… because change can take time
  • And a major role in creating the course content, so you know it covers your most important issues, $PRICELESS
That’s a total value of OVER $10,000


We’re offering a risk-free, no-questions-asked, 30-day money-back guarantee, so you can be CERTAIN our course is the right fit for you.
Ugh, but this is going to take years!2020-05-17T17:54:56-04:00

Yes, it often does, especially if you’re married (and not just dating,) if you have children with your toxic partner, or if your finances are intertwined. Chris and Lisa checked all those boxes.

The fact that it’s quite likely going to you a while to get through this is why we’re offering both “bite-size” and “all-you-can-eat” lifetime levels of access to our courses. We’ll help you forward at your own pace, no matter how long it takes.

My situation is unique… nobody would understand2020-05-23T16:26:32-04:00

Certainly, everyone’s situation has unique elements. But, narcissism and other toxic personality disorders are way more common than many think (narcissism is estimated to affect 8% of the U.S. population.)

The behaviors of toxic people can be remarkably consistent… if you took our quiz, you can probably understand how we can say that!

No matter the unique details, we’ll be able to understand and support you. We’re building a community of people in the same situation so that we can all support each other.

It’s amazingly powerful to talk with others who totally “get it.” That’s the “been there” part of Been There Got Out. In fact, we’ve learned that the biggest benefit of our program is this strong, supportive community.

I’m OVERWHELMED. My problem is too big to deal with, and I don’t know where to start.2020-05-17T20:12:26-04:00

Chris and Lisa were both in long-term relationships/marriages with narcissists (a total of 34 years.) We know. We felt EXACTLY the same way.

You’re right: it’s a huge problem, and it’s probably going to take a long time and a lot of effort to get through it.

BUT, you CAN get through it, and, with our help, you’re going to do it faster, cheaper, better, and with less pain.

The unfortunate fact is that the very beginning – when you’re just figuring things out – is when most people have the most frustrations and give up, figuring there’s no way out… and it’s when we can make the BIGGEST DIFFERENCE.

Having the support of a community that is going through the same thing is priceless, and that’s exactly what we’re building. WE’VE GOT YOU, from beginning to end… from finding the strength to get your sanity back, to navigating a legal system that’s not designed to help you, to healing yourself and your children, to thriving on the other side, no matter how far away that might seem right now.

I’m just looking for information. I think I can get through this myself.2020-05-17T18:00:26-04:00

Hey, we got through it on our own, so, sure, that’s an option.

We got through it on our own, but at an incredible cost of time, money, emotional energy, pain, and fear. If that’s the path you want to take, our hearts go out to you, and we wish you luck.

Our idea in launching BTGO was that others suffering in situations like the ones we were in could benefit ENORMOUSLY from our years of experience, practical knowledge, and tens of thousands of hours of research.

We know the VALUE we’re offering FAR exceeds the cost of our course.

If you DIY, it’s going to be a big challenge to learn fast enough, and it’s probably going to take longer, be more expensive, have worse results, and involve more fear and pain than if you had expert guidance.

I’m concerned that this course is too expensive2020-05-23T15:56:22-04:00

If your situation is like most in toxic relationships, it’s going to be FAR more expensive not to work with us. In Chris’ case, his divorce cost $300,000, and most of that was wasted. He would have easily saved half of that if he only knew then what he knows now. It was that realization that led to us launching BTGO.

We believe that this course alone will be one of the best investments you ever make, so much so that we’re offering a no-questions-asked 30-day money-back guarantee. Our course costs less than ONE HOUR with an attorney, AND you’re getting the opportunity to help us shape the content so you can be SURE it’s right for you.

We’ve put in the work, gathered the resources, and are building the community… we KNOW the value we’ll provide far, far exceeds the price tag.

I don’t have any privacy / it’s not safe right now2020-05-27T18:42:40-04:00

With the crazy state of the world right now, we’ve heard people tell us that they don’t have the privacy to connect with us safely. We’re working on ways to deliver the course and offer support that will make it easier, like recorded content sessions that you can listen to on headphones while out for a walk, for example.

We’re never going to deliver support via a Facebook group or something like that.

We’re extremely conscious of this issue, and we’ll work with you to come up with solutions to safely get you the help you need.

I don’t have time for the course2020-05-27T18:39:23-04:00

If you can’t make a commitment to invest some time and effort in yourself (maybe for the first time in a while?) then you probably shouldn’t buy into our course and community, because you’re unfortunately probably going to stay stuck for a while.

Chris and Lisa both wasted an INCREDIBLE amount of time over the years suffering in, and struggling to get out of, toxic relationships. How much time are you already wasting with ineffective solutions, like therapy, worrying, arguing, Googling your partner’s irrational behaviors, talking in circles about the problem, and losing sleep?

If it’s less than three hours a week, maybe you can get by without us.

The time commitment for our courses is maybe three hours a week… way less than a healthy exercise regimen.

When will it be time to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF?

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