Being in a marriage with a high-conflict partner
Take a Deep Breath
We’ve been there... we understand... and we can help.
Being in – and getting out of – a marriage to a high-conflict partner is fraught with peril. Understanding the danger you may be in is a critical step.
If you are in a toxic marriage to a high-conflict partner, and you want to save yourself and your children from permanent harm, you need to wake up… and get out.
We can help you
Get Over the Hurdles
For many, coming to understand that the situation has become intolerable is the biggest hurdle.
Despite the proliferation of high-conflict mental health problems (e.g., Narcissism) in our society, most people don’t really understand these issues.
Narcissists cannot be “cured,” and investing yourself in counseling or couples therapy delays a true solution and causes more pain.
It can be so hard to realize that the partner you love is really your (extremely cunning & dangerous) enemy… but you have to do it.
You will need support, but friends & family – and even many therapists – will not understand why your divorce is different.
Developing your plan to get out without escalating the conflict in your home is a crucial challenge.
Your toxic partner may have a wide range of tactics they use to keep you in their abusive clutches. You have work to do to overcome them!
Shockingly, over-burdened courts and unaware attorneys are not likely to understand your high-conflict divorce.
You may have completely lost your center – Narcissists skillfully do that to their victims. But you can get it back… and soar!
I can’t thank you and Chris enough… I don’t know where I’d be if I didn’t have you guys.
If you had asked me in December if I would be up to this task, I would have said, “I don’t know.” After what I’ve been through and survived the last six months, I know I am!
Work is getting much easier to focus on again… also I think the realization that my life will be much better and far less chaotic without her, has been calming, almost sobering.